This week I read Amy Chua's book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. I'm not at all certain I qualify as a "Chinese Mother", but I am certain that Chua and I agree on a great deal concerning parenting. Chua has been eviscerated in the press for demanding so much from her girls, who are developing talents, gaining knowledge, and becoming high-achieving young women as a result of these demands. Parents are lining up in droves to criticize her tough love parenting style. As a mother, (the German, French, Mediterranean variety) I commend Chua for her non-apologetic stance. She speaks truth when she says that the majority of parents reward mediocrity and lavish undeserved praise on under-achieving offspring. More harsh truth is found when she observes that often, we parents take the selfish, easy way out while hiding behind clichés such as, "Well, they have to find their own way", or, " They've got to make their own mistakes". I admit to the t...
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